Now that you’ve learned what to do before you try BDSM, it’s time to get to the fun stuff… actual technique! Here are 3 basic techniques for kink play. If you’ve been in the scene for a while this may be too elementary for you, but it’s perfect for beginners who don’t know where to start. Our resident Kink Columnist Lord Morpheous brings you the 3 things you’ll want to master.

1. Anticipation

It’s probably not the first thing that comes to mind when you think about BDSM but it’s definitely important. Actually… it’s pretty important in any sexual encounter. Building anticipation makes the entire experience, especially the grand finale, much bigger and better. Read more about why anticipation is important in kink play, and how to do it right.

2. Spanking

The most popular activity in BDSM is spanking. But there is a right and a wrong way to spank your lover. Our bodies are pretty complex and there are certain areas that are not safe to spank, especially at the beginning level. As mentioned before, safety is a huge part of proper BDSM play, and knowing when, where and how to spank your lover is part of that.

3. Bondage

It’s one of the most accessible and popular facets of BDSM. Chances are you’ve already partaken in bondage in some form or another. It’s not quite as complicated as you think, and it can easily be done with items you already have in your home. Here are some simple ways to restrain your lover.

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