If you’re looking to polish your sexual skills or try something new and aren’t sure exactly how to do it consider picking up one of these sex guides. They’re our favorites and our best sellers. There’s something to cover pretty much any topic and you’re bound to find one for you. Whether you’re reading on your own or with your partner, sex guides are the perfect way to expand your sexual repertoire.

Here’s our top 20 sex guides including everything from the basics, to Kama Sutra to BDSM:

 

THE GOLD STANDARD IN SEX GUIDES

 

Guide to Getting it On covers such a wide variety of topics that it would be hard to list them all here. It’s also the only guide that’s revised and updated on a regular basis so the information is relevant (it’s now in its 8th edition), and is used in many college sexuality courses. It’s that good. Available in stores.

 

Guide to Getting it On Sex Book

$25.95

 

COUPLES’ SEX GUIDES

 

Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight was written by Emily Morse, who hosts the very popular podcast ‘Sex with Emily’ and also contributes content to our website and hosts workshops in our stores. Filled with information and tips, Hot Sex is like a modern version of the classic ‘The Joy of Sex.’

 

Hot Sex 200 things to do tonight

19.95

 

The Multi-Orgasmic Couple is a classic that focuses on Taoist sexuality, teaching couples how to blend sex, heart, and mind to have more fulfilling relationships. Practical instruction on Kegels, breathing, delaying ejaculation but still experiencing orgasm, full body orgasms, and more.

 

KAMA SUTRA & TANTRA SEX GUIDES

 

Kama Sutra A Position A Day – exactly what it sounds like, a different Kama Sutra position for every day of the year with photos and brief instruction.

 

kama sutra a position a day 365 days a year

15.95

 

Kama Sutra Expert combines information from many texts on Eastern sexuality: Kama Sutra (3rd century India), the Perfumed Garden (12th century Tunisia), Ananga Ranga (15th century India), and Taoist philosophy (ancient China). A very unique look at spiritual sexuality.

 

kama sutra expert book

19.95

 

The Cosmo Kama Sutra is an entry level, illustrated, female-oriented Kama Sutra from the magazine many women know and love. The table of contents lists the positions by type (standing, sitting, etc.) which is a unique and helpful feature. Available in stores.

 

Cosmo Kama Sutra Book

19.95

 

 

SEX POSITION GUIDES

 

365 Sex Moves has a different position for every day of the year, a popular format with our customers. Each position is illustrated with a photograph and a short but thorough description.

 

365 sex moves book

18.99

 

The Position Sex Bible features hundreds of positions with photographs and directions for recreating each one. The table of contents sorts the positions by lying down, standing, rear entry, sitting, advanced, etc. so you can zero in on exactly what kind of sex you want to have.

 

position sex bible book

17.99

 

Position of the Day is not an actual instructional book, but it’s a unique blend of sex and humor and has been very, very, VERY popular for over a decade. While all of the positions aren’t technically achievable without warranting a trip to the hospital, they can still be enjoyed by couples (gay or straight) looking for a laugh, and the names of the positions are incredible: the Corporate Merger, the Excuse Me, Do I Know You?, the Snow Blower, etc.

 

sex position of the day book

9.95

           

 

THE SPECIFICS – ORAL, ANAL, VAGINAL, AND PROSTATE SEX GUIDES

 

Oral Sex You’ll Never Forget is packed with tips, techniques, position guides, and scenarios for better oral sex for men AND women, making it a distinctly couples’ oriented oral sex guide. 

 

Oral Sex You'll Never Forget Book

24.99

 

Hot Sex Tips, Tricks, and Licks is another couples’ guide, but this one focuses on finger, touch, and massage techniques alongside oral instruction, resulting in a guide with a very unique pleasure perspective. It also includes solid advice on flirting, dirty talk, erogenous zones, anal, and so much more. Available in stores.  

 

hot sex tips tricks and licks

19.99

 

Tickle His Pickle is a classic guide that’s sold well over one million copies since it was first released more than a decade ago. There are almost no guides in the history of sex guides that have sold over a million copies, so that should tell you something. This book is aimed at women, and highlights oral and hand techniques, fantasies, using toys for a supercharged BJ sessions, and more. Instructions are clear and easy to follow, there are helpful illustrations, and the tone is super fun, making this an essential guide. 

 

tickle his pickle oral sex book

14.95

 

Clitology is aimed at men, but it’s perfect for the ladies who want to learn more about their anatomy. The information is thorough and accurate, and there are tons of diagrams to enlighten even the most clueless vagina lover. Everyone who reads this book will come away having learned something new and delightful about their or their partner’s ‘Notorious V.A.G.’

 

clitology sex guide

19.99

 

Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot is now in its 2nd printing, establishing it as THE guide to the often mysterious world of female ejaculation; the author has been writing and lecturing on this topic for 2 decades. This updated edition contains resources for further learning, product recommendations, video links, and newly discovered information about the G-spot and PC muscles alongside the areas that made the first edition such a classic: scientific findings, anatomical illustrations, and information for people who would like to help their partners experience ejaculation and ultimate G-spot pleasure. 

 

female ejaculation the gspot

17.95

 

Come As You Are was a runaway New York Times Bestseller when it was first published last year. It was born out of an examination of why so-called female Viagra hasn’t been successfully developed. Because of the enormous amount of research on the ‘pink pill’, the science of female sexuality and orgasm was examined more closely than ever before, leading to this groundbreaking look at what makes women tick. Hint: it’s about how you feel, not what you do. Every woman’s sexuality is unique like a thumbprint, and once you understand this you can create your best possible sex life.

 

Come As you are Sex Book

16.99

       

 

Anal Sex Basics is a fantastic entry-level guide to anal for people of all orientations, desires, sexes, and genders. It covers preparation, external play, internal play, positions, toys, prostates, safety, communication, aftercare, and more. There’s also a chapter of advanced information included for additional learning after you master the basics – a graduate course, if you will. A truly inclusive guide for the best anal sex ever…bottoms up! 

 

anal sex basics book

22.99

 

Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure is the only book out there solely devoted to the P-spot. It’s a long overdue look at everything from locating, stimulating, and milking the prostate, to health and hygiene, using toys and strap-ons, solo stimulation, and so much more. And it’s open to all sexual interests and lifestyles, so everyone will feel welcome while learning about all of the pleasure the P-spot has to offer! Available in stores.  

 

ultimate guide to prostate pleasure

17.95

                                          

FETISH & BDSM SEX GUIDES

 

SM 101 is like the Guide to Getting it On – the Gold Standard guide to the topic of BDSM. Now in its second printing, this book is for the interested beginner who wants to learn the right things about this often misunderstood area of sexuality, although veterans can learn something too. Covering bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing, safety, relationships, and more, the 2nd edition also contains a new chapter on starting and running organizations and events for consenting adults. Available in stores.

 

SM 101 Kinky Sex Book

24.95

 

                    

Bondage Basics is a blend of BDSM introductory guide and rope tying manual that is full of gorgeous color photographs and step-by-step instructions to help you lean both Eastern and Western styles of knot-tying. In addition to being an educator, photographer, and host of the largest single night rope bondage event in the world, Lord Morpheous is a contributor to our website. He took the red pill.

 

Bondage Basics Book

25.00

 

Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is our top selling rope bondage guide, and for good reason. Lots of pictures, clear instructions, beautiful knots, and sections on how to create panties, bras, corsets, gauntlets, and even a harness for a strap-on! For beginners or advanced players, you’ll learn everything from basic safety and rope information to advanced techniques. Available in stores.

 

2 Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes

16.95

 

Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes is the follow up the book above, featuring a new set of clearly explained ties accompanied by plenty of pictures. A few knots are repeated from the first book, but ‘Back on the Ropes’ is intended to be a companion to the first book so most of the ties featured here are new and the books are best together as a pair. Dan and JD (the Knotty Boys in question) are retired from giving demonstrations, so these books are the closest anyone will get to learning from them in person, but the books are so darn good, it almost doesn’t matter. Available in stores.

 

Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes

22.00


 

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